oh. so just the basics. you can also have sex without it leading to babies or wanting it to uh...and nobunaga and i cannot biologically have babies make another human together. not that i trust myself to have children yeah. don't think that's the vibe. it's not necessary. obviously. the sex. some people just really like it. some people don't like it. some people are ambivalent.
yep. yeah. i mean, if you want to make it less...'do you like to fuck' you can like...ask if they have boundaries they want to keep in mind, places they don't like being touched or things they're not comfortable with doing. you could mayyyybe wait till after you've figured out they like you too.
nobunaga responds positively to people coming on strong, but not everyone does. and don't be sorry. it's fine. i'm just not usually like...the useful one in any situation so i hope i'm not fucking this up
ok yeah that's doable he's patient but i don't think he wants me groping in the dark i'll talk to him about the feeling stuff then it's you know whatev
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Date: 2023-04-02 04:40 am (UTC)you can also have sex without it leading to babies or wanting it to
uh...and nobunaga and i cannot biologically
have babiesmake another human together.not that i trust myself to have children
yeah. don't think that's the vibe.
it's not necessary. obviously. the sex.
some people just really like it. some people don't like it. some people are ambivalent.
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Date: 2023-04-02 04:55 am (UTC)cool
how do you know if someone is into that
just ask?
sorry for stupid questions
i don't wanna fuck this up
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Date: 2023-04-02 06:02 am (UTC)yeah. i mean, if you want to make it less...'do you like to fuck'
you can like...ask if they have boundaries they want to keep in mind, places they don't like being touched or things they're not comfortable with doing.
you could mayyyybe wait till after you've figured out they like you too.
nobunaga responds positively to people coming on strong, but not everyone does.
and don't be sorry. it's fine.
i'm just not usually like...the useful one in any situation
so i hope i'm not fucking this up
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Date: 2023-04-02 09:42 am (UTC)he's patient but i don't think he wants me groping in the dark
i'll talk to him about the feeling stuff
then it's
you know
whatev
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Date: 2023-04-03 05:47 am (UTC)you’re so cool
and i’m supporting you in spirit
and available for hugs if needed